Reyo Admin Your self-worth is one of the greatest gifts you possess if you recognize it timely. Now, what do I mean by recognizing it timely? I intend to highlight the fact that in situations where you are required to show up and stand tall if you give up and surrender; you do injustice to yourself as your self-worth gets smashed by the exploiters.
As we are all born with worth, a value; we must learn to hold our worth high and stick to it as well. For this purpose, we need to work on building our self-worth and then standing by it even if others tell us otherwise. You will see, how you get the due regard and appreciation from the right people and places. But, if you surrender and compromise on your energy, worth, and preferences way too much, regret will be the only thing you will be left with. Hence, knowing your worth and then working on it for its growth matter the most for a peaceful and fulfilling life.
How to build your self-worth
As I have mentioned already, growing your worth is the way to go. Therefore you must leave no stone unturned in your urge to enhance your value and not settling for anything less than you deserve. So, the key point remains the improvement of self-worth. How can you do it? Let me explain:
- Learn assertive communication at the earliest so that you know how to communicate effectively. A major part of communication is verbal and thus skill like assertive communication helps you to convey your viewpoint honestly and firmly. This way you do not settle for less and ultimately get what you are worth.
- Another important way of growing your worth is by learning the skill of saying ‘no’ whenever and wherever needed. Many people who fail at this skill suffer at the hands of exploiters within their family and outside. Initially, it would be an intentional effort but gradually it will become a part of your personality and exploitation will vanish giving way to greater benefits and improved relationships too.
- Prioritize yourself and what you love to do. If you do not set healthy boundaries and hold no personal space for self-growth, people will simply trample over your time and leave you drained and unaccomplished. You do not deserve such exploitation, do you? So, show them that your greatest project is your personality and it will never accept unreasonable demands or conducts.
- Finally, feel no scruples on cutting the ties with toxic people. Your worth and value must be greater than settling for noxious people who sap all your energy and leave you despondent or drained. No matter how close the relationship be if the other person considers it right to throw their shabby thoughts on you, tell them that you are not a trash can of their toxicity. Walk away and feel no regrets about it. After all, your self-worth remains at stake otherwise and that should not be acceptable.
THE BOTTOMLINE: Indeed, what you get in life is defined by you and your self-worth. If you do not work on building it up, it would become a lifetime regret for you and no one would want to carry this guilt and regret with themselves all the time. So, invest in lifting your value and stand by it like a warrior.
Good Luck!
